Is+My+Friend+a+Bully?

Are you worried that your friend may actually be a bully? How do you know so that you can intervene if needed?

This [|site] is great for this purpose. It provides a large list of typical bully behavior. You can view this check list while comparing your friend's behavior to the items on the list; this should help you to understand their behavior and whether or not it could be perceived as bullying. As a friend, you have a lot more influence over your friend than adults do; you can be most helpful in stopping their bullying. As your peer, they are very likely to listen to what you have to say and value it because they can relate to you easier.

If your friend's behavior towards others makes you feel upset or uncomfortable in any way, do not hesitate to report it to an adult. By doing so, you are not only helping the people that your friend has been bullying, but you are also helping your friend, who is likely looking for some sort of attention or guidance. If you are not ready to tell an adult, have a mature conversation with your friend. Let them know that their behavior upsets you. They value your opinion as a friend.

The site can even help you figure out ways to approach your friend to discuss their problem, and put a stop to their bullying.